Water always brings good feelings and experiences in the hot summer days, water brings cooling and at the same time will make us more calm. Summer and water are always closely connected, and water can bring great associations and feelings.
What is hydrophilia?
Hydrophilia is a type of fetishism that is characterized by a desire and excitement for water-related activities and a preference for associating water with sex. This includes, swimming, enjoying watching people in the water, holding your breath in the water and having sex in the water. There are certain dangers associated with this behavior, especially holding your breath in the water, which carries a high risk or even the possibility of death.
What to watch out for
Before you start experimenting with water sex, knowing this can better help you get there and have a more pleasurable experience while protecting your health and safety.
1. Open communication
The most important thing to remember when trying water sex is to communicate with your partner before you start. Find out your partner's attitude towards it and whether they like it or not. Explain to your partner why you like to have sex in the water, and find out if there is a desire to try water sex. Understand your boundaries and the risks involved before you start. If your partner is not interested, respect their wishes.
2. Protect your privacy and safety
Sex in public places carries a certain amount of risk. Know the rules of public places before you start, and choose a more private way, such as choosing a less crowded, quiet, secluded place and keeping it quiet accordingly. If you don't want to be judged morally, don't get caught, or choose a private place.
3. Take precautions
Sex in water still has the potential to lead to pregnancy or infection with sexually transmitted diseases. And when you have sex in water, condoms are more likely to slip off, increasing the likelihood of pregnancy. You can wear a condom before you go into the water so that it won't slip off easily. You can also take other contraceptive measures, such as taking the pill is also a good choice.
Sex in water is inherently risky, so taking protective measures can avoid sexually transmitted diseases and the possibility of pregnancy.
4. Take good care of yourself
Even if you have sex in water, you need to clean it accordingly. You can prepare a clean towel for drying to reduce the growth of bacteria. Keeping clean and dry after sex is vital to our health. Of course, emotional care is also important and can be given by expressing affirmation, hugging, and kissing your partner after sex.
Safe water sex ideas
Here are some ideas for water sex that you can try out
1. Shower sex
Shower sex is the easiest and most convenient way to try water sex. Before you start, laying a non-slip floor mat in the bathroom or grabbing onto something firm can protect each other from falling during sex. You can also add some sexy atmosphere to the bathroom, for example, lighting scented candles, playing sexy music, etc. These can make us more immersed in the enjoyment of sex and improve the sexual experience. Shower sex can also try more new positions, find favorite positions and angles, so that sex becomes more interesting.
2. Role play
Try playing roles related to water, such as lifeguards and swimmers, mermaids and princes. Use your imagination and create your own story. Please make sure that both parties are in agreement and safe. Prepare suitable costumes and props for the characters, which can increase the immersion and bring in the story.
3. Sex on the beach
Try a beach away from the crowds and look for shelter, such as rocks, umbrellas or bags that can help you cover yourselves better.
4. Go for a swim
Any water sport such as swimming, paddling, surfing and other activities that make you feel good and relaxed reduces stress and anxiety. Feel the impact of the waves and the feeling of the current hitting your body.
5. Go on vacation
Choose a favorite waterfront vacation, such as beaches, islands, waterfalls, lakes, and so on. Choosing a place close to the water on vacation can not only bring a cool feeling, dissipate the summer heat, but also try a lot of water sports.
6. Use sex toys
Adding sex toy to the water can increase the fun to enjoy more happiness, after all, nowadays a lot of sex toys, can be pleasant to play in the water. And with or without a partner, sex toys can provide you with pleasurable feelings and improve your sexual experience.